


You’ve likely read several marriage improvement books and watched countless podcasts episodes... and you've also likely found that the quick tips and blanket advice work for a few weeks before things go back to the way they were.
Which of these sounds most familiar?
You’ve tried "talking things out” over and over again...
But, the conversations just go in circles. Nothing gets resolved and all you end up doing is walking away, feeling defeated and frustrated, once again.
You've attended a few one-off counseling sessions...
But while clinical counseling may have helped you process things, it didn't exactly give you the forward movement you were looking for.
You've tried getting counsel from other couples you know...
Because they love you so much but haven't walked in your shoes—they can't help but give you theoretical, biased advice.
You've created plan after plan to follow together...
While it works for a week or two, you find yourselves right back where you started—because there's no one in your corner holding you accountable long enough for actual change to take place.
You've tried having hard conversations...
But because there's so much hurt from the past that hasn't been aired out and fully healed from—your pain and frustration keeps getting in the way of progress.
If any of these resonates with you, it likely means...
You want more intimacy & closeness, better communication & less conflict—a relationship you want to run home to everyday...
But trying so many different things that haven't worked has left you drained and exhausted—you don't even know where to start.
You want to set an example of a Godly union for your children...
But the idea of them repeating what they've been seeing at home weighs on you more than you want to admit.
You know your marriage was meant to be more than just 'healthy'—deep down you know your potential as a couple...
But it's been harder to stay connected to the purpose God has for you because you're not exactly where you want to be.
So, what's the BIG secret?
By now, you've probably thought to yourself...
"What do all these other couples have that we don't?"
Or worse...
"Did I marry the wrong person?"
[You’re not the only one.]
Driving around the house after work just to avoid the tension with your spouse inside...
Scrolling through Reels and Shorts for inspiration to stay in the relationship...
All while posting selfies and pictures of your last date night out...
Hating the fact that you're living in the same house, building your lives separately, drawing further and further apart...
While no one knows (or understands) feeling empty—going to bed night after night, week after week, feeling unfulfilled because the years are flying by.

We wanted so badly to have an intimate and powerful bond—giving our children the best example of a Godly Marriage they'd want to replicate...
But the reality of our relationship, then, wasn't worth replicating.
[X] We avoided each other around the house for days at a time after an argument.
[X] We didn't feeling safe enough with each other to be fully open, honest, or real.
[X] We craved a real bond & genuine friendship—but not knowing how to get rid of the tension in the house to experience one.
[X] We kept having repetitive arguments about the same old topics.
[X] We absolutely hated the example we were giving our children of marriage behind closed doors.
But, through time, we went through a powerful journey of deeper discovery that led to real reconnection, and spiritual growth that changed the direction of our marriage in ways we didn't expect.
We never thought those seasons of trial would lead us to a process that took the guesswork out of...
We didn’t do this by having endless conversations about the past.
We didn't invest any time into learning our communication styles.
Honestly, we didn't use any surface-level tips or tactics.
For some, fixating on the past 5, 10 years of the relationship helps—but for others, digging further and further into the past, week after week feels more frustrating and agonizing than empowering.
And because our ways of communication were already not working—we realized putting a label on it wouldn't make a difference.
We also found that tips can help in the moment—but too much advice out there leads to more transactional relationships not closer ones.


The truth is...
A motivating marriage sermon, learning more communication skills, and a 3-day marriage conference can all give you major relationship boost…
But breaking years of habits, old mindsets, and repetitive patterns to walk towards the relationship you BOTH want—requires a journey of rediscovery and elevation...
Through coaching, conversations, exercises—paired with empowering accountability and support, so you don't find yourself bouncing between one-off sessions without a plan.
The relationship you’re looking for are the results of rediscovery and growth.
We realized this most when the changes in our relationship had a direct impact on every other area of our lives for the better.
Our relationship felt more intimate.
Our work performance improved.
The work we did in ministry began to flourish.
And it became noticeably different—to the point that we somehow attracted others who also wanted improvement their own relationships.
Thinking nothing of it…
The little bits and pieces of suggestions we gave made a bigger impact than we thought.
It wasn't long before we realized what was once our biggest challenge later became our life's purpose.
So we locked in and began to study and research.
Taking a much closer and deeper look into relationships, diving into what REALLY makes a satisfying relationship and fulfilling relationship.
We hosted weekly marriage trainings, relationship Q&A's, marriage workshops—all sharing practical ways to improve relationships.
Interviewing countless happy and unhappy married people, answering questions,
solving problems, studying the gaps...
All in attempts to find the secrets, must-haves, and non-negotiables to a deeply fulfilling relationship.
After lots of refinement…
We combined data, Biblical truth, personal experience, and a fresh approach—into a clear process that helps couples grow from the past without getting stuck in it, elevate as individuals, communicate with more purpose, rebuild trust—all creating a reconnection experience (spiritually, emotionally, and physically).
We learned that rebuilding relationships does take time— but it doesn’t have to feel directionless.
With the right roadmap, support & accountability...
Creates a clearer path to communication with less barriers, connection that feels easier, and rebuilding trust with more intention and progress.
The reality is most committed married people have similar issues when it comes to their relationship…
They want to find new connection with the same spouse—but rather than working with long-term solutions—they settle, surviving off inspirational messages, and "It'll get better" advice.
They want to rise to their truer potential, together—but fall to their own distractions, allowing people, circumstances, and situations to hold their attention.
They want to be a true example of a Godly marriage for their children, family, and friends—but because they’ve tried just about everything and haven’t found a better solution, they repeat their own cycles.
And after years of the same patterns, their desire for one another lessens, the joy in their home has faded, their productivity plummets—taking a physical, mental, and emotional toll on them both.
And the sad truth is…
As much as they try to overcompensate with more cruises, more day trips, and more date nights—none of it fills the silence, the stagnancy, the emptiness they come back home to when the fun is done.
[No shame. We learned this personally.]
How would it feel to lock in together for a set period of time—and finally do the real work of walking towards a marriage that reflects what God intended?
To partner with a couple who’s been where you are…
Not just to encourage you, but to challenge you.
To help you break old habits and patterns that keep pulling you backward—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
What if this wasn’t just “marriage support,” but a strategic, faith-rooted experience that helps you reconnect, realign, and rediscover one another?
Practical support.
Real accountability.
Clear steps that help you walk towards the marriage that's no longer surviving—but growing with greater purpose?
[X] Keep feeling alone or divided in your own home.
[X] Put up a front for church, family, or the kids.
[X] Live separate lives under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed.
[X] Plan another 'feel-good distraction', like trips and dates, from your issues at home.
Communicate more clearly and naturally—so conversations don’t spiral, and even when you disagree, there’s a steady calm. No eggshells. No tension in the air for the rest of the day. But conversations that go somewhere, and bring clarity—not more distance.
Feel safe enough to say what’s really on your heart— without bracing for a reaction. Speak honestly without being dismissed or misunderstood. So you get one another more—and you feel it.
Become more spiritually invested—praying together more, growing freely without pressure. Both of you tuned in. Making God the center of your marriage—not just for church days.
Share your vision and get more on the same page—not just about your schedule, but the bigger purpose. Where you’re headed. And for once, you’re not the only one thinking about the future—it’s a shared mission.
Be fully open and honest about anything— whether it’s something that hurt, something you're afraid of, or something that’s been on your chest for years. Without fear of it starting a fight and without walking away. But more space for openness transparency.
Create deeper intimacy— not just physically, but emotionally, so you feel drawn to each other again. Without forcing affection. You don’t just have sex, you can feel intimately closer.
Feel focused, inspired, and motivated— so you fulfill your assignment. Each day has meaning again—because you’re running together. And for once, your relationship can fulfill the mission God put in your heart.
Because this is deeper than just 'better communication'...
If you’re both ready to... pour into your marriage again, have conversations that draw you closer, and cultivate a genuine friendship beyond what you have right now…
Keep scrolling.
We have something unique we think you'll love!
Show you the specific steps to work through emotional and spiritual barriers—so peace replaces confusion, and calm becomes your new normal.
Help you align the desires you haven't even shared—and walk towards a vision you can actually fulfill together.
Guide you through more intimacy with your spouse, beyond the physical—but more emotional and spiritual.
Upgrade how you communicate in a way that's clear, encourages connection, and helps you navigate any topic—difficult or not—with patience and understanding.
Lead you through intentional exercises to deepen trust, build friendship and closeness.
Bring clarity around the strengths and gifts you bring to the table—so you can fulfill your God-given assignment together.
Help you make your marriage and home a sacred space where peace is protected—while your relationship becomes priority, once again.
But more than this…
You won’t have to trade another window into your problems in exchange for words of encouragement from anyone…
Because you’ll have a Husband & Wife Team in your corner, to coach and guide you throughout the journey.
No fluff.
No generic advice about ‘active listening’ or ‘I’ statements.
And No biased, feedback or one-sided, hot-seat sessions.
But an intentional process with real solutions and conversations that'll take your marriage to a deeper level.
[X] Not watching more regurgitated tips.
[X] Not spending months on one issue.
[X] Not getting biased feedback.
Instead, feel confident knowing you’re walking through a proven process that helps you release what’s behind you, communicate with clarity, and create real connection and intimacy.
The Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is ideal for couples who feel stuck in an unfulfilling, stagnant marriage—and are ready to cultivate deeper trust, reconnection, and elevate with purpose.
This intimate 4-month experience combines Bible-based marriage coaching with real accountability and support—delivered through private 1-on-1 couple’s sessions, individual spousal coaching, and engaging small-group sessions.
Our 3-Pillar Framework is designed to help you walk through four phases—each one guiding you through a different stage of the journey, with practical steps and spiritual alignment along the way.
A process designed to help you walk through 4-phases towards a marriage that is healed from hurt, fueled by passion, and living out God’s unique assignment.


PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION
In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.


PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION,
NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST
This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.


PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP SECURITY HABITS
When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION

In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.
PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION, NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION

In this next phase, we transition into connection and communication. While connection ignites genuinely throughout all four phases - in this phase, we prioritize eliminating and replacing the habits and patterns draining connection and calling division (aka divorce traps).
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we'll discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST

This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.
PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP
SECURITY HABITS

When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
Discover more of who you are and who your spouse is—on a deeper emotional and spiritual level—so you can show up as your most honest, authentic selves.
Get clear on what you both want for the future, and finally feel aligned in your vision, goals, and direction—as individuals and as a couple.
Learn how to communicate in ways that actually bring clarity—so you feel understood, supported, and heard.
Let go of the weight from the past and start moving forward together, without constant lingering issues, shutdowns, or misunderstandings.
Break down the walls that have built up between you—so trust feels real again and emotional safety becomes your new normal.
Create an environment that invites closeness—where intimacy, trust, and true friendship can grow without pressure.
Use your individual strengths to work as a team—so you’re no longer pulling in opposite directions, but moving with power and unity.
Build a relationship that feels nurtured, steady, and full of life—the kind of connection you both want more of, not less.


16-Weeks of Transformative Coaching: Tailored coaching and accountability to elevate you as people while creating lasting transformation in your marriage, home, and family.
CULTIVATE Core Curriculum & Essentials: Foundational, self-paced step-by-step videos with actionable 'in-the-moment' exercises for real-time relationship upgrades—cultivating authentic connection, partnership, and trust.
Private 1-on-1 Couple's Sessions: Focused, transformative bi-weekly sessions designed to help you navigate roadblocks, break through barriers, and overcome challenges—guiding you both toward the relationship you envision.
Husband's (Spouse-Only) Power Sessions: Impactful, personalized coaching for the Husband—addressing personal obstacles, providing feedback, and offering actionable steps to step into the inspiring leader he’s meant to be in his life and home.
Wife's (Spouse-Only) Power Sessions: Empowering 1-on-1 coaching tailored for the Wife—guiding her through mental blocks and challenges, offering personalized feedback and exercises to break through limitations and embrace a renewed mindset and spirit.
Small-Group Sessions & Workshops: Intimate, monthly group workshops and opportunities for couples to build relationships with other like-minded couples during through the following:
Fellas-Only Workshops: Exclusive, monthly group sessions for the husbands. Connect with like-minded men, have conversations that are raw, relevant, and specifically designed for husbands, to strengthen your role as a husband and leader.
Ladies-Only Workshops: Exclusive, monthly group sessions for the wives. Connect with like-minded women, have real & raw conversations—on everything from motherhood and marriage to womanhood to wellness, to elevate your marriage and grow as a woman.
(NEW) Couple's Community Nights: Monthly, virtual group meets for couples to enjoy interactive experiences together to connect, have some fun, and grow!
You go through the
4-month roadmap, getting everything above while receiving personalized coaching, ongoing support, and positive accountability.
You have our guidance available every step of the way.
The Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is ideal for couples who feel stuck in an unfulfilling, stagnant marriage—and are ready to cultivate deeper trust, reconnection, and elevate with purpose.
This program is a PERFECT fit for you if:
You both want more out of your relationship and out of life—you just don’t know where to start.
You’ve been married 5, 10, 15+ years and have been consumed with family, business, or career—but you're now ready to prioritize yourselves and your relationship.
You're tired of trying all kinds of quick tips and blanket advice—you're ready follow a proven process with support and accountability as you go through it.
You've already tried traditional methods like counseling, and therapy— you're just looking for a more direct, empowering, forward-focused approach.
You want to experience true reconnection—but you want it to happen naturally and authentically without it feeling forced, fake, or transactional.
If this describes you and your spouse — the Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is the experience for you!
✔ Enjoy communication that feels natural—and handle tension without things spiraling or shutting down.
✔ Feel fully safe in your relationship—free to say what’s on your heart and know you’ll be heard, valued, and met with love.
✔ Share the same level of commitment to growing—spiritually, personally, and together.
✔ Align your future goals—so you’re building in the same direction, with clarity and unity.
✔ Be fully open and honest with each other—comfortable letting your guard down, even in hard conversations.
✔ Cultivate deeper intimacy—emotionally, physically, and spiritually, without pressure or distance.
16 Weeks of Transformative Marriage & Personal Coaching
The Cultivated Core Curriculum & Essentials
(value $1,697)
Private Biweekly Couple’s 1-on-1 Marriage Coaching Sessions
(value $2,376)
Private Husband (Spouse-Only) 1-on-1 Power-Sessions
(value $788)
Private Wife (Spouse-Only) 1-on-1 Power-Sessions
(value $788)
Monthly Fellas-Only Husband’s Group Workshops
(value $508)
Monthly Ladies-Only Wives’ Group Workshops
(value $508)
Monthly Cultivated Couple's Community Nights
(value $388)
(One-time payment and save $500 —or choose a flexible payment plan for $3,497)
(One-time payment and save $500 —or choose a flexible payment plan for $3,497)


Inside, you'll uncover some of the most overlooked keys to becoming the kind of partner your spouse has been hoping for—so you can grow together with clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of what it means to love each other well.



Inside, you'll uncover some of the most overlooked keys to becoming the kind of partner your spouse has been hoping for—so you can grow together with clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of what it means to love each other well.



Enough settling. It’s time to break unhealthy patterns, start a new chapter, and walk in alignment with purpose God has for the two of you.
Absolutely not. Most couples work with us because their conversations feel unproductive, spiral into arguments quickly, or they don't communicate at all. One of the top areas we work on inside Cultivate is upgrading how you communicate, increasing intimacy through conversations, creating higher standards for disagreements, and opening up without resistance. Once we get momentum there, everything else becomes easier.
That's 100% valid. Actually, most people who join Cultivate have already tried something to help their marriage before connecting with us—counseling, conversations, books, advice, something. And almost everyone says the same thing about this program, "this is different". What makes it different comes down to two things: the way we coach and the way you show up. This program is structured, with real support and accountability. If you show up honestly and fully, you're giving the process everything it needs to work for you.
The short answer is yes. Most of our clients are working full-time, raising kids, and managing packed schedules. Some couples choose to watch the trainings together, while others meet each other for discussion and couples exercises. The only time we require you are together is for your 1-on-1 couple's sessions (for reasons like creating intimacy, restoring physical closeness, decreasing tension, etc.) Outside of that, you don't have to be in the same room at the same time for every moment of this.
Yes. Whichever way works best for you. We offer flexible payment options and financing through Klarna and Afterpay. For couples who are ready to go all in, we also offer a significant discount through our All Chips In Package. You’re also welcome to use a credit card if that works better for your timeline. However you choose to move forward, we support whichever option is a fit for your budget and your season.
The difference comes down to the approach. Coaching is a much more forward-focused approach. So while we work through healing, rediscovery, growth, and elevation—we do it in a way that prioritizes moving forward. And while we have to discuss the past—to heal, to find clarity, to end old patterns, to pinpoint habits and create solutions—we don't live there, week after week, session after session. Coaching is ideal for couples who've circled the problems long enough and are ready for a 'push' so they can start a new chapter in their marriage.
We get it. Most of the couples inside Cultivate are managing packed schedules with kids, work, school, ministry. While this program does require your commitment, you don't have to be in the same room at the same time for every moment of this. As long as you can come together for your couple's 1-on-1 coaching sessions and your couple's exercises—you can make everything else in this program work!
It’s completely normal for one spouse to feel ready and the other to feel unsure (especially if you've had failed attempts at marriage support in the past). Most times one spouse feels the urgency while the other is still somewhat skeptical because they still have questions or want to know more about how it works. We always recommend booking your Connection Session with us. It's no-cost with no strings attached. We answer all your questions and let you decide if this is right for you.
You’ll get a mix of both. Private couples sessions are done together, so you can work through things side by side. Your group sessions (3x a month), connects you with other couples in the program. And each spouse gets their own Husband/Wife Power Sessions, one-on-one coaching calls focused on individual growth and support within the marriage!
You don’t need to be a devout Christian or a heavy Bible reader to join Cultivate — but you do need to be open to a process that’s fully rooted in biblical principles. Everything we teach flows from Scripture and centers on God, Christ, and the covenant design for husband and wife. The growth couples experience is greatly tied to a deeper devotion to the Most High God and learning to follow Christ in their marriage. If that aligns with who you are or who you’re becoming, you’ll feel at home here. If you’re not interested in God, Christ, or in a biblical marriage, this won’t be the right fit.
As soon as you enroll—all materials, login information, dashboard access, link to book your first session—is sent straight to your inbox. You’ll receive your login to the online platform so you can dive into the curriculum right away, along with access to your bonus resources. Everything is laid out step-by-step clearly so you know exactly where to start. You’ll also get immediate access to our private support chat, so if you have questions before your first call, we’re already right there with you.

We’re Tazadaq and Zakah, Certified Marriage & Relationship Coaches committed to helping ambitious couples married 5, 10, even 15 years—restore trust, deepen their connection, and build a purposeful partnership.
Early in our own marriage, we faced challenges that tested our commitment. Through faith & serious intention, we overcame those struggles and grew passionate about understanding the pillars of a fulfilling relationship.
As entrepreneurs, business owners, and parents raising a blended family of five (with children ranging from 5 to 27), we understand the complexities of balancing marriage, parenting, co-parenting, and work. We know firsthand what it takes to turn struggles into strength and create a marriage that not only survives—but flourishes.
Over the years, we’ve combined biblical wisdom, relationship research, and personal experience to develop a proven process that helps couples break through barriers, rediscover intimacy, and cultivate the marriage they deeply desire and deserve.
Our mission is simple: to help couples cultivate the marriage and relationship they’ll never want to leave. If you're ready to get serious about pouring into the future of your marriage, we’re here to help.






