YOU want?
and elevation with your love?
Living like roommates, chasing separate goals and visions, and feeling spiritually stagnant to cultivating a tighter bond and genuine friendship, working like a power team, sharing their purpose-filled vision, while spiritually, creatively, growing and expanding interpersonally and as a couple.
Which of these sounds most familiar?
You’ve tried "talking things out” yourselves over and over again...
But, the conversations seem to always go in endless circles, and all you end up doing is walking away, feeling defeated once again.
You've attended a few counseling sessions...
And you quickly realized it isn't the best approach for you and your spouse, or you want more for your marriage than just weekly sessions.
You've tried getting counsel from other couples you know...
But, they love you so much - they end up giving you biased advice.
You've created plan after plan to follow together...
While it works for a week or two, you find yourselves right back where you started because there's no real accountability.
You've tried having hard conversations...
But because there's too much hurt from the past that hasn't been properly addressed or healed from, moving forward seems close to impossible.
If any of these resonates with you, it likely means...
You want to have more emotional and physical intimacy, more peace in the home, and a relationship that's safe and secure...
But you're frustrated from trying so many different things and nothing has worked, you don't even know where to start.
You want to set a replicable example of a Godly marriage for your children...
But the idea of them repeating what they've been seeing at home doesn't let you sleep.
You know your marriage was meant for more passion, purpose, and success than what it is right now...
But you're so far from where you want to be, you'd rather avoid feeling disappointed by thinking about it.
So, what's the BIG secret?
By now, you've probably thought to yourself...
"What do all these other couples have that we don't?"
Or worse...
"Did I marry the wrong person?"
[You’re not the only one.]
Driving around the house after work just to avoid the tension with your spouse inside...
...scrolling through Reels and Shorts just for inspiration to stay in the relationship...
...all while posting selfies and pictures of your last night out...
...feeling frustrated knowing you're living in the same house, building your lives separately, drawing more and more apart...
When in reality you feel empty - going to bed night after night, week after week, feeling more unhappy, unsatisfied, and unfulfilled.
We wanted so badly to have an intimate and powerful bond and give our children an example of a Godly Marriage they'd grow up and want to replicate...
But the reality of our relationship, then, wasn't worth replicating.
[X] Walking around the house avoiding each other for days at a time after an argument.
[X] Not trusting each other enough to be open, honest, or transparent about anything.
[X] Desiring a tighter friendship but not knowing how to get rid of the tension in the house to experience one.
[X] Communication issues about parenting, money, and anything else.
[X] Unsatisfied with the example we were giving our children and family.
You name it.
We never thought those years of trials and tribulation would lead us to the process that'd take all the guesswork out of…
-- Communicating in a way that feels good.
-- Healing from the past and actually moving forward.
-- Having open, difficult, and transparent conversations.
-- Deeper emotional and physical intimacy.
-- Experiencing a real friendship and true bond.
-- Building a stronger future for our family, together.
-- Feeling safe and secure enough to be our complete selves, flaws and all.
-- Being comfortable about talking about uncomfortable things.
-- Operating in our purpose-filled vision both as a team and individually.
-- Feeling prioritized, meeting each others’ needs and desires.
We didn’t do this by diving deeper and deeper into our past.
And (shocking, but) we didn't invest any time into gaining new communication tools or conflict resolution skills.
We didn't use traditional methods or practices.
For some, fixating on the past 5, 10 years of the relationship helps - but for others, digging further and further into the past, week after week feels more frustrating and agonizing than empowering.
And because we've already experienced traditional counseling methods, personally (and know so many other couples who did, too) – we realized it wasn't the kind of approach WE needed.
We also found that learning more tactics, like skills and strategies, can be good...
But tactics, strategies, and skills creates more scripts and transactions in relationships than provoke deeper conversations or real connection that penetrates the soul and the relationship.
The truth is...
Anyone can learn more communication skills, listen to a marriage sermon, or enjoy a weekend marriage retreat…
But without a well-thought-out roadmap that takes you through a journey of discovery and transformation using proven coaching, conversations, and exercises - with empowering accountability and measurable growth in place...
You'll find yourself looking for answers again, because the long-lasting changes you’re looking for in your spouse and marriage are the results of a transformational experience.
We realized this most when the changes in our relationship had a direct ripple effect on every other area of our lives for the better.
Our business performance improved.
The work we did in ministry flourished.
And our connection became noticeably different – to the point that we somehow kept attracting other couples who also wanted to experience improvement in their own relationships.
Thinking nothing of it…
The little bits and pieces of suggestions we gave were making MAJOR changes in other relationships.
[That was just the beginning.]
We decided to study and take a much closer and deeper look at the relationships around us at the time, and those we grew up around.
We got more excited about learning any and everything we could about what makes a satisfying relationship and a truly fulfilling marriage.
Taking all possible weighing factors into account (cultural differences, previous relationships, age gap, older children, involved co-parents, work roles, etc.)...
We interviewed countless married people, examining their existing problems and future desires, then found and studied all the gaps...
All in attempts to find the secrets to lasting relationship breakthroughs.
[not just a few days].
After lots of attempts and refinement…
We took everything we found + the data + scriptural principles + our own experience + this new approach and, finally, built a roadmap that's helped couples [like you] address and heal from the past without having to dive too deep into it, have great communication going forward, rebuild trust, experience a genuine reconnection and an intense spark in the intimacy.
We learned that it doesn't have to take years for a married couple to experience a true transformation as a couple — when they have a specific process...
A roadmap, laid out step-by-step...
to set them on a clear path to communication without barriers, connection without resistance, and trust without walls.
The reality is most ambitious married people have similar issues when it comes to their relationship…
They want to be even more in love with one another than they were in the beginning -- but rather than working with solutions that’ll serve them long-term — they tend to settle for their current norm, surviving on inspirational messages, and "It'll get better" advice.
They want to grow individually and together to expand in all areas (spiritually, financially, interpersonally, etc.) — but they fall to their own distractions, allowing things, people, and situations to take and keep their attention from their marital happiness.
They want to feel confident in their ability to be a true example of a successful Godly marriage for their children, family, and friends — but because they’ve tried just about everything and haven’t found a better solution, they repeat their own cycles.
And over time, this only lessens their desire for one another, lessens the happiness of their family, their productivity, and ultimately takes a physical, mental, and emotional toll on them.
Because the sad truth is this…
Vacations, day trips, and date nights out are all great ways to get away from the tension and the uncomfortable environment...
But they don't address the elephants in the room or hold you accountable to breaking old habits and destructive patterns.
[No shame. We learned this personally.]
To guide you through a reconnection experience, to coach you and hold you accountable to breaking old habits and thinking patterns to break the spiritual and physical barriers in your relationship, provide practical solutions, and help you grow and expand as a couple?
-- Feel alone and divided in your own home. --
-- Put up a front at family dinners and get-togethers. --
-- Live your lives separately while under the same roof and sleeping in the same bed.--
-- Plan 'feel-good fixes' like trips and dates as a distraction from your issues. --
Have easy-flowing communication and navigate disagreements exceptionally well?
Feel safe and secure enough to say what's on your heart and be validated, received, and accepted?
Be equally spiritually-invested?
Share your vision and be on the same page about your goals and future together?
Be fully comfortable being open, honest, and transparent about any and everything (good or bad) ?
Experience deeper intimacy (physically + emotionally) at a higher level?
Feel focused, inspired, and motivated to fulfill your God-given purpose as individuals and a couple?
If you’re both ready to... pursue each other again, have conversations that leave you emotionally & physically aroused, enjoy a deeper connection and relationship BEYOND what you have right now…
Keep scrolling.
We have something unique that’ll do all of that!
But more than this…
You won’t have to trade another window into your problems in exchange for words of encouragement from anyone…
Because you’ll have a Husband & Wife Team in your corner, to coach and guide you every step of the way.
NO fluff.
NO generic videos about ‘active listening’ or ‘I’ statements.
And NO biased, feedback or one-sided, hot-seat sessions.
But a well thought-out roadmap to help you both gain the understanding, implement step-by-step solutions, and engage in the conversations that will take your marriage to the next level.
So you can completely FORGET about...
[X] Watching regurgitated lessons on skills and tips.
[X] Spending agonizing hours diving deeper and deeper into the past, session after session.
[X] Getting biased, partial or one-sided opinions and feedback.
But instead feel safe knowing you’re following a step-by-step process, that helps you move forward from the past – WITHOUT having to dive too deep into it, elevate your communication and upgrade the quality of your conversations going forward, and inspire a trust that initiates genuine connection and intimacy.
Here’s a quick look at our framework:
Inside this intimate 3-month experience you get supportive and accountable Coaching based on Biblical Principles, through private 1-on-1 couple's sessions, access to an extensive marriage curriculum with video trainings + workbooks for an interactive and actionable experience, and targeted, specific individual + couple’s exercises to help you gain the foundation of your journey.
Our G.E.N.U.I.N.E. Reconnection Method™ consists of four phases, each designed to guide you through the various stages of this journey.
(4-Phases over 3 Months)
PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION
In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.
PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION,
NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST
This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.
PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP SECURITY HABITS
When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION
In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.
PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION, NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION
In this next phase, we transition into connection and communication. While connection ignites genuinely throughout all four phases - in this phase, we prioritize eliminating and replacing the habits and patterns draining connection and calling division (aka divorce traps).
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we'll discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST
This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.
PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP
SECURITY HABITS
When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
"I'm learning more about myself and the needs of my wife."
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"...this one call helped me more than my last session with my Therapist."
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"I've been recognizing things about myself since starting this process."
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You go through the 3-month roadmap and get everything above while getting personalized coaching, unlimited support, and positive accountability.
You have our guidance available every step of the way so you can experience a long-lasting transformation.
This program is a PERFECT fit for you if:
If this completely describes you and your spouse — the Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is the experience for you!
...Enjoy smooth communication and handle disagreements exceptionally well?
...Feel completely safe and secure in your relationship, enough to express your thoughts openly, and be acknowledged, embraced, and valued?
...Share an equal level of commitment to spiritual and personal growth?
Align your ideal futures together to unify your goals and desires?
...Feel comfortable letting each other in, openly and honestly, without hesitation, regardless of the conversation?
...Enjoy deeper intimacy, both physically and emotionally?
...Feel inspired, motivated, and driven every day about fulfilling your individual and collective God-given purposes?
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU GET THESE BONUSES!
Immediately get access to your personal Couple's Chat together with your coaches for daily support in between sessions and coaching calls. Perfect for in the moment coaching, mediation, and feedback.
Get access to this exclusive husbands and wives mini-course. Discover some of the least talked-about secrets to becoming the partners you both truly desire and deserve.
Husband's and Wives' Workbook & Guides Included.
WHEN YOU ENROLL, YOU GET THESE BONUSES!
Immediately get access to your personal Couple's Chat together with your coaches for daily support in between sessions and coaching calls. Perfect for in the moment coaching, mediation, and feedback.
Get access to this exclusive husbands and wives mini-course. Discover some of the least talked-about secrets to becoming the partners you both truly desire and deserve.
Husband's and Wives' Workbook & Guides Included.
[when you both know you’re called for more]
and elevate into the couple and people the Most High God has called you to be.
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"Having someone outside the family or just outside of who we know helping understand our issues better is amazing! "
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"I really enjoy working with you guys. I love that you both create opportunities to work on ourselves and the marriage independently."
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We're dedicated to helping goal-driven couples married 5, 10, even 15 years - recover from neglected, unhappy relationships, to start fresh, rediscover one another, and experience a genuine reconnection.
After experiencing and overcoming challenges early on in our own relationship, we've become obsessed with communication, connection, and trust.
Together, we have a blended family of 5 children (5 - 27 years of age). We’re entrepreneurs and business owners, coming from full-time work, co-parenting and step-parenting.
We've infused our research, studies, and personal experiences into creating a proven process that helps married couples cultivate the relationship they both deeply desire, and completely deserve.
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